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Mibit’s becoming a problem
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So this is gonna be a pretty ‘fun’ subject to cover, as it talks about a mental illness that’s quite common. However, one person in particular seems to be using it to get his way. I’m afraid I might be dealing with another GreyTheWolf, and this time Jero can’t help with. At least, not in the short term. It’s hard to say what’s going to happen down the line.
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Anyway, I’ve gotten back into Destiny 2 (as I said in the Games blog. If you haven’t seen
it, feel free to click here). Though this discussion isn’t really about that game, but more
of.. well, either ‘favoritism’ or ‘jealousy’. Maybe even ‘rage’. For two days, I’ve been working my scales off trying to speedrun the latest season (before the servers go down as the new expansion is coming and fast). Kovo and Nova (mainly Kovo) has been helping me to achieve this. I managed to complete the season, then Kovo wanted me to get this exotic weapon he believes I’ll like. I get it and its catalyst, and I’m testing this thing.
With 30 minutes until the servers go down for maintenance, Mibit joins and I tell him how I got the catalyst and stuff like that.
He isn’t too happy. Not of the effort I put in, but.. in a very unlike way of him. “I’ve been doing research on this game for a year” is all he says. “Mibit, I’m not trying to steal that thunder from you. I don’t even know why you’re upset with me”. Kovo was in the call at the time and he too was very surprised at Mibit’s obscene actions. He tried to explain
to Mibit that he tries to make time for everyone, and sometimes he can’t be there. Then Mibit says “well that’s why I’ll play solo” and leaves.
We try to continue focusing on the game, but very bothered of what happened. Try to think of theories of why he said this. As I said earlier, it could be ‘favoritism’ or ‘jealousy’.
After the servers went down, I messaged Mibit in DMs wanting to know what beef he has with me.
WARNING: Before I start, I have said this before and I’ll say it again.. I have, no issues against anyone with ADHD. I just don’t know how to handle people with it. It requires a special person.
Now, hopefully most of you with this mental condition, do NOT use it as a means to make people focus specifically on what you like (or don’t). And if you do, please re-think and stop doing that. Thank you.
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Mibit.. sadly, IS one of these people who uses it as a ‘crutch’. He was ‘blaming’ me for all of this, bringing up our breakup (falsely claiming it was because of his ADHD). Then he talks about Blender, how I let him go ‘because of ADHD’. He’s letting his ADHD-filled anger control his actions instead of realize I really, really tried to handle Blender. And you can ask BADDECODE to back me up on it.
Finally I said “we’re still friends. I’m still friends with him, and I.. well, hope to remain friends with you.” Now I’m not so sure, because later when he joined.. he ignored me. He never apologized.
Not gonna lie: my friendship with Mibit isn’t as big as it once was. I’d say ‘tolerable’.
Why? Because that’s where the whole ‘uses his ADHD like a crutch’ thing comes from. And I’m not alone. Kovo and Nova have seen this. He likes talking about DOOM, a lot. And if you’re not, he tends to go silent. He also talks about his records and stuff, like others are supposed to just be into what he is; to share those common interests.
Still remember one day, he was showing us these rewards he’s gotten from his work and stuff, to show he’s no idiot for having ADHD. Look, Mibit isn’t a bad person by any
means. But he has issues.
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Though one issue that Kovo and Nova are concerned the most about, is him not really getting the whole aspect of love. Says he’ll look for love after he gets his computer upgraded or something. Kovo and I were in the call at the time and tried talking sense into him. Then when Kovo wanted to take his break after what happened with Nova, he told me he’s powering through and using the pain to make himself better at his abilities. I felt happy for him and actually wished I felt this.
The very next day, Kovo tells me Mibit wants to date Jero. Clearly his ADHD speaks for him. I mean, even I have some of the symptoms of ADHD. But I don’t force it upon people. Yes I use my mental disability as a crutch, but only personally. I do my best not to let these symptoms control how I act around others. This is why I try to keep to myself, to avoid those issues from leaking out.
I dunno how to deal with this, neither do they. But they’re going to try an idea to see if Mibit’s looking for anyone at this point (even if they’re in a maybe possible relationship).
At this point I’d rather have them deal with this, instead of myself.
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A very active weather week
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2022 has been pretty active, weather wise. But this week is going to be a week of pain for me. I’m just glad the start of it didn’t start when I was getting all of that stuff done
in Destiny 2. Yet I also would prefer it to not happen tomorrow either, as that’s the release week. :/
Anyway, we’re under a SLIGHT risk yet for the second time this month, and possibly a Tornado Watch later in the morning (even though our tornado risk is very low to low). The main threats of this week, is the flooding. The Gulf of Mexico is unusually active, and we’re going to get cold front ontop of another cold front. Pretty much a series of cold fronts, with it ending of a possible (but uncertain) ice threat. Yes, we’re going to go from severe weather one day of the week, to another ice storm. Lots of chances for the power to go
out. It’s almost like Mother Nature is yelling “DAG DAMNIT, LOSE YOUR FUCKING POWER AND DIE, DAMN YOU!!!”
To have two ice storm risks in one month is definitely a cause for concern. But it’s that thing that people in power would rather pretend it doesn’t exist instead of actually doing something about it. And honestly I’m just tired talking about that ‘word’ as it means nothing to them. …Fucking hate our government. Our forefathers would be ashamed.