Wish I had more to add to the title, but nothing really major has happened apart from these two. Well, there is another, but it’s not something I really wish to talk about.
Has nothing to do with me personally. But anyway, let’s start.
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Nearly lost my shit
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Just a normal day, coming back from dinner and was getting ready to play some
more Half-Life Alyx. Happen to glance at who’s on in the call of the server.
…I see Jero in there. Immediately I’m getting pissed off and wanting answers why he’s in there, but noone’s giving me much. I even talked to Harry about this, who didn’t even know what was going on. They were surprised, but told me “honestly Benie, why is this bothering you? Maybe he’s just chilling. Maybe he’s moved on. What happened to yourself saying you have, huh?”
I swore up and down Jero was up to something, still trying to find out Harry’s actual name. But Harry didn’t seem bothered by this, feeling confident Jero’s given up on the search.
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I went to Kovo in Telegram, asking him if he knew what Jero’s saying. He didn’t answer until much later, only saying Jero asked if they “still play VRChat”. I wanted to grab Jero by the neck and throw him into a wall when I saw that message. ..How DARE you say
that, with how long I’ve been waiting to see YOU. Then suddenly doubts started flooding my mind thinking once again Jero might’ve been telling the truth about ‘being too busy with work’.
Went to Harry for advice, they told me to chill. “Let him do what he wants and forget what happened. Put your priorities on other things worth more than this” they added.
mmmMMMMMmM!!! Why is he even here anyway?! Just to torment me?? You’d think he would had left our server a long time ago. Just thinking about him makes me want to show him the fury of a raging dragon inside me! He should not be allowed to breath for what he did to me!!
I blocked him.. so why did I fucking SEE HIM in that call?!?! If this was my server, his ass would be kicked to the curb.
But… why am I so aggressive all the sudden? He didn’t humiliate me infront of my friends. He didn’t cause my life to be ruined. No. It’s nothing like that. So.. why do I even care what happens to him? Kovo told me he was just chilling.
*deeply sighs*.. Harry’s right, I shouldn’t be caring about what Jero does. I need to just be living my life, and it seems Jero is as well. Mmm. Yeah. Plus, if I’m in the call and Jero joins, I won’t hear him (because he’s blocked). So, why should I give a fuck he has zero remorse for what he did?
He’s not gonna change.
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I have a new semi-unwanted son
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Was on VRChat last night, first time I got on since the VRChat+ announcement that put a really bad taste in my mouth. Just Kovo and Nova there infront of the mirror. They’re trying to get me to go back into Destiny 2 (since the new DLC launched). And they’re not the only ones. I got a friend who’s also trying to get me back into the game.
Like, can I just.. say, I don’t care for Destiny 2 anymore (as I feel I’m not good at any game that uses a weapon/armor build system) and not feel I’m being harassed by my decision? Sparky understands, why can’t them?
Anyway, someone joins the world that I haven’t seen in awhile, someone that I didn’t think actually cared about me as I’ve been ignoring them: Shootandstuff. About two weeks
ago, he told me his RP mother (Garruk.. yes, that Garruk who unfriended me all because I wasn’t spending enough time with him), has disappeared from VRChat and all other forms of social media. Just, *poof*.
I comforted him while Kovo and Nova wanted to see if they could help him out. All we got out of him is this happened around two months ago. No word if anyone pissed Garruk off to the point he vanished (if he may’ve.. you know) or decided to change his life around and stopped going online. Yet, you don’t do that to your son (RP or not)… you let them
know.
Nova was quick to say this, as she too is an RP mom and has a RP daughter.
It seems Garruk pulled ‘a Jero’ on Shoot, and I really do feel bad for him. But, this is the same Shoot I remembered before, and the reasons why I wanted to ignore him. He just, his voice bugs me. It’s so deep, sounds like he’s in his 30’s (like Yellowjack). But just like Yellow, he’s probably much younger than he sounds (at least the way he acts).
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He starts messaging me in Discord, but I’m not really paying attention until a bit later after the second message. I freeze when I see him say “can you be my RP dad?”
I wanted to say “I’m sorry, but I can’t” after what I went through with Fluffy. But I knew it would break his heart and cause him even more depression if I refused. I.. *sigh* against my gut to say no, I said “sure”. Because he has noone. At least.. that’s what I thought ’till later on, where this one guy in this weird shark avatar with a covered buldge comes up to Shoot and is all “this is my master!”
The person is confused what to call me, then thinks to also call me his father. ..What is happening here?! The fuck did I sign up for?! Plus the shark guy’s saying “you should ask your dad if it’s OK if we ERP here”. ..WTF..
All I wanted to do was help a guy who had no RP family, and now this is happening! The insanity!
But thankfully this got ‘sorted out’ when the two left for a private instance.
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I dunno how long this ‘Shoot being my RP son’ thing is going to last. I pray he moves on and finds someone else to cling on to, but I dunno. …I am not a father figure. I am old
yes (old enough to be the father of most people), but I don’t want kids (RP and IRL).
Kids are annoying, and then suddenly turn to want ‘more than a friend’ relationship. Oh wait that was just Fluffy back then. I dunno if Shoot would go the same route (I pray not).