{"id":8363,"date":"2021-08-22T13:12:05","date_gmt":"2021-08-22T17:12:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/?p=8363"},"modified":"2021-08-22T20:42:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-23T00:42:32","slug":"lets-not-bring-sparky-this-time-no-offense-me-a-grey-hair-in-blenders-birthday-a-drunk-mibit-storytelling-youre-my-boyfriend-now-mibit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/2021\/08\/22\/lets-not-bring-sparky-this-time-no-offense-me-a-grey-hair-in-blenders-birthday-a-drunk-mibit-storytelling-youre-my-boyfriend-now-mibit\/","title":{"rendered":"“Let’s not bring Sparky this time. No offense..” -Me \/ A Grey hair in Blender’s birthday \/ A drunk MIBIT \/ Storytelling & “You’re my boyfriend now” -MIBIT"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yesterday was CDC Blender’s birthday. Yes, my birthday ends when his begins. Freaky huh? But it isn’t the first time I’ve had a friend with a birthday the very next day after mine. I just sadly can’t remember their name.
\nAnyway, I had a pretty good day today.
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\n“Let’s not bring Sparky this time. No offense..” -Me<\/strong><\/em>
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\nPlayed Sea of Thieves after I ate dinner. Would had played earlier, but Sparky was having issues with his internet connection. I wanted to redo Chapter 1’s Tall Tale for him (and told him this before we got ingame).
\nWe took the Brigantine (3 player ship) and set sail for the green portal. I wanted Sparky to man one of the sails and he ends up manning the sail I’m manning.
\nWe make it to where you get off the ship and head in. I tell MIBIT to let Sparky do most of the puzzles. He’s running around the first puzzle, and I ask him “do you want a hint?” He says “I’ll figure this out” and I let him do so. But one time I’m starting to get annoyed with how long he’s taking to solve something and do the same ‘hot, cold’ game I did with MIBIT to help him. He gets a bit annoyed with me saying “I thought you said you’ll let me figure this out on my own”.
\n“I am” I said, totally not lying. We get to the main area and I said “Alright Sparky, I’ll let you solve this entire thing, just as you want it.” He manages to get some of it… until we get to finding the treasure chest for Poor Dougie. This is when my patience was really starting to get tested. Even MIBIT was losing his patience. Sparky was so. close to getting to the spot the treasure’s at. I tried to tell him how close he was, but he wouldn’t respond. We could hear him, but he refused to talk to us.
\n20 minutes go by. I’m now at my limit and ask MIBIT “should I go on and help him?” he said “yeah”. Started digging up the treasure. Sparky comes running over and sees it but says nothing. Finally he speaks to us, but not in the way of “ahh.. so here it is!” I was really annoyed asking him “why didn’t you respond?? You were so close to it!”
\n“I was focused! I say nothing when I’m focused!” he answers. Oy. Could’ve still said something instead of acting like you were ignoring us.
\nWe bring the treasure to Poor Dougie, and typically you’re supposed to use the same key to open a certain locked door to get treasure. Somehow, Sparky lost the key when we got to the locked door. And I was not happy, at all.
\nEDITOR’S NOTE: Can’t believe I forgot what Poor Dougie’s treasure was for. This was not Sparky’s fault at all. *facepalm* ..It was mine. But, not a huge deal. At least it wasn’t bugged. Just wish Sparky asked “so what I do with this coin?” and it would’ve hit me.
\nWe got to the lighthouse. After the Cursed Captain told the “cowardly curs” to allow
\naccess, Sparky lost him by accident. The level of “OMG Sparky why are you doing this..” in my mind when I heard him say “where did the captain go?!”. Thankfully the captain didn’t get bugged out, or I would’ve been furious at that point.
\nSparky literally did the rest, outside of using the rowboat to reach the Ferry. Both MIBIT and Sparky were fighting over who drives it, and MIBIT ‘won’. But I ended up doing it myself as MIBIT wasn’t used to going in reverse.
\nWe got to the Ferry, and Sparky started mounting AFK after AFK. My lord. Finally he came back and we continued. Then came the combat scene. MIBIT specifically said he would man the cannons. Then Sparky later said “cover me! Everyone cover me! I got the cannons!” …The fuck.
\nFinally it was over. What typically would had taken myself an hour… took three. Yes, three hours to complete that, because of Sparky. And on top of that as we’re getting ready to leave the chapter, Sparky has to leave.
\nSo we’re 2-manning a 3-man boat. MIBIT is driving and I’m trying to control both sails. We’re heading back to the outpost and I see a mast infront of us. We’re heading almost full speed. I’m trying to cut the sails and we start to get attacked by a Sloop that we’re heading right for.. at full speed. Thankfully we were able to get everything under control and stopped.
\nThe person in the Sloop started moving over to us as both me and MIBIT were swimming to shore, trying to show we mean no harm. They ask “tgm?” MIBIT assumes ‘Team Deathmatch” and tells them no, and I said “let’s just get off before they come over here”.
\nWe went to VRChat afterwards. MIBIT wants to do Chapter 2 tomorrow, but we both agreed not to bring Sparky… no offense to him, but we do NOT have that kind of patience.
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\nCelebrating Blender’s birthday<\/span> \/ A Gray hair in Blender’s birthday<\/strong><\/em>
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\nA two parter here. Originally I thought of continuing that horror map that night but MIBIT was in a private world and CEC Blender was in a joinable world. So I went to see him to wish him a Happy Birthday. It was a club themed world that you can dance to the music. Lots of people here.. and the number was increasing at a slow pace.
\nWe’re hanging out with Blender, not really much to say. Random person came up to us and started talking sweet things to Blender, as if he knew him most of his life (either that or the guy’s drunk AF. More than likely that).
\nI noticed Novice was on. Thought of joining him, but he was in a world with 35 people<\/strong> in it! *coughs* Yeah.. no.
\nTime goes on. Blender starts talking about “I’m recovering” …huh? We’re noticing he’s lagging like crazy and he goes to do something else. I see a glimpse of something behind me and turn around. There’s a large Hopkin showing off their full body, dancing happily to the music. There’s also a mirror infront of them that me and MIBIT cuddle infront of.
\nWe’re discussing what’s going on with Blender. I check my player list and notice 28 people are in here.. now it’s 35 and increasing. I also notice the red FPS of Blender. Holy fuck he’s in the teens!!
\nMIBIT suggests we head somewhere else. I suggest my homeworld and I go there. He joins me and I lay down on the bed there, us cuddling and kissing. Send Blender an invite, but it takes him 45 minutes until finally joining us. First thing he says is “my PC hates me, E!”
\nPoor Blender. He couldn’t do anything with that horrendous framerate.
\nHe wants to use the video player in my homeworld to show off some of his CEC videos. But there’s something very wrong with the video player’s audio. We decide to go to the Room of the Rain instead to watch it, once again me lying down and Blender lying down with me.
\nAn hour passes, people start joining the instance.
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\nOne of them had a very familiar name. GreyTheWolf. He says nothing and leaves 30 seconds later. I decided to ask “so which one has Grey as their friend?” MIBIT didn’t hear me but Blender asked “who, Grey? Yeah I have him as a friend”.
\nI say “let’s just say he’s one of my EXes”. MIBIT says “I bet that was a bit awkward”. I
\nsaid “…yeah” I corrected myself saying “he’s more of an ex-friend”. They didn’t ask anything more about it, only MIBIT and Blender wanting to show off their work. Appreciate this, because I didn’t wanna talk about it.
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\nLater on MIBIT says to me “you know I still have those cans of beer I was going to drink on your birthday. I’m going to drink them.” Feeling a bit horny at the time, I said “heh
\nyeah, we can do what we couldn’t do yesterday.” So he started drinking, and I laughed everytime he suddenly blurted out “BEER!!” and drank a can.
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\nA drunk MIBIT<\/strong><\/em>
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\nMore people joined the instance…. including Inari. Both myself and MIBBIT said
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\nHe comes up to me and says as I’m still laying on my back: “Hey Benie. Is that song still stuck in your head?” “..Fuck you!! \ud83d\ude02” is my response. lol
\nAnd then he starts playing it on the video player (and singing it to us)…
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\nMIBIT is still drinking, starting to get buzzed at this point. Inari tries to lighten the mood to make the song less of an annoyance. I’m standing up as I noticed my hip tracker was a bit messed up. Time passes and now MIBIT is officially drunk. Also Novice joined. Hoo boy. But this time I felt happy to be with MIBIT. He was doing what I wanted Wolfdog to do (who didn’t).
\nThen one time MIBIT fell asleep while drunk. He had gotten up, was standing up in bed still snoring, then he moves into a corner and turns into a pretzel.
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\nI asked “how can someone fall asleep while drunk?” They all laughed, as in “this is perfectly normal.” Can’t remember what was said afterward. A lot happened that day.
\nOne time I made the mistake of saying “you know Inari, the song ‘this song gonna get stuck instead your head’ was more stuck in my head than ‘It’s a small world’.”
\nInari’s all “Ohh. Well if that’s the case…” and played it. And then I said “I found a 10 hour version. Dear god.” …He played it too. Why in the fuck DID I SAY THAT?!? FUCK!! FUCK FUCK FUCK!!
\n\"Fairy
\nSomehow, this caused MIBIT to briefly wake up. I ran over to him and said “MIBIT, are you there??” and I could had sworn his response was “This song is gonna get stuck inside your heeeeaaaddd..” before falling asleep again, as if he was dreaming. Wanted to laugh hard but I didn’t.
\nHe finally became awake sometime later, but moaning as in he’s having a hangover. I hugged him tightly and assured him I wasn’t going to leave his side and we’ll get through his drunken time together. He was really happy to hear that.
\nI eventually decided to get him to a private instance, to help him relax from all of this chaos.
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\nStorytelling & “You’re my boyfriend now” -MIBIT<\/strong><\/em>
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\nAnother two parter, but the final one.
\nWe had a good time, and wow did I get tired from it (but in a really good way). Let’s just say I gave him the good stuff that helped him get sober. I think back of all the times Nova got drunk and wanted to do it with Kovo (right then and there).
\nSo anyway, I decided to tell him a tale of doubts, a tale of someone who I thought loved me but never truly showed it until the second time we dated. …You know who I’m talking about. I don’t even have to mention the name. And if you don’t, you should when I say how the name starts with a ‘J’.
\nIt was the first time I was able to start and complete it without saying “I’ll continue this story later” and then completely forgetting about it. But now he knows about you know who that is now my friend. Though IMO, didn’t really like when I was really getting into the story and he interrupts me, explaining something similar that happened in his
\nlife, and most of it he’s already told me before (mainly about his GF).
\nLook MIBIT I’m sorry about what happened with your former GF. But please don’t interrupt me, thanks. \ud83d\ude42
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\nCan’t fully remember what happened later, except him constantly repositioning himself with me snuggling him while we’re looking at the mirror. He said “guess I should call you my boyfriend now” (or something like that). When I had said how “I felt Jero was ‘the one'”, he said “that’s how I felt about you when I met you”. I smiled from ear to ear when he said that.
\nI swear, MIBIT is like, Jero(the good side) and Novice combined. It’s, so awesome. \ud83e\udde1
\nThough I have just a few things against him, but nothing major for me to tell him (not yet anyway).
\n1.<\/strong> Puts more of a focus on ‘vr porn’ (of him blowing his load in VR) instead of us satisfying eachother through ERP. In other words it takes him a very long time to do it and I feel I have to constantly help him do so. It’s fun yes but it’s also tiring on my body IRL (why I try not to take too long). In other words, he doesn’t see himself as a ‘subby boy’. But maybe with time that might change for him to primarily be a bottom?
\n2.<\/strong> Bit of a language barrier, having to ask him to repeat himself. Though sometimes he hardly understands me. Sometimes this plays with the first thing, where it sounds like he wants to do me instead of me doing him (him being a switch kind of makes things confusing in the bed).<\/p>\n

I’m still also a bit nervous to fully explain who I am IRL. I have been giving him a
\nfew ‘bites’ here and there to see if he’s still interested in me (for example I recently told him I’ve been living with my parents all of my life). He seems completely unphased by it. Not sure if that’s something I have to worry about. He knows I don’t have a ‘proper’ job.
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\nA half an hour before bedtime (I’ve been going to bed at 5:30am now because of him, but I don’t mind it one bit), he says something on the lines of “actually I can’t fully say boyfriend, at least not yet. See I became be-i(that’s the way he says “bi”) because of
\nmy girlfriend. It’s been a week and I’m not fully sure yet. So I want to wait a month to know for sure I am.”
\nI kissed him and nodded, saying “take all the time you need to know you’re ready. We don’t need to rush this”. I say this to myself too. I know I said that I was happy being single and felt content with it, but somehow the stars aligned on my birth month.. which is funny as during my birth month is when I was in a relationship with Wolfdog.
\nBut from what I’ve seen… MIBBIT > Wolfdog any day. He cares for me, he loves cuddling me. He doesn’t mind spending hours on end just sitting in one world cuddling, snuggling and kissing me. Doesn’t feel he should call me in Discord just to say hi. Doesn’t feel he should watch movies with me in Discord (and then ask “now you see why I<\/em> like it?”).
\nHe also assures me he’ll be nothing like what Jero was. “I don’t like making people wander” he says.<\/p>\n

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\nI.. want this to work. I want this relationship to work. I just wonder when it’s going to come to a time when I might have to change some bits of who I am to<\/span><\/em> make it work (or if he’ll change bits about himself).<\/p>\n

EDIT, August 22nd: I dunno but I think he may’ve just maybe possibly had just just announced he wants this to be official.
\n“So I been thinking about this all day I am ready and comfortable to say hun sweetie bf and other stuff” -What he said. So either he’s saying he wants to make this
\nofficial and\/or<\/em> he’s officially announcing he’s “ready and comfortable” to be bi (which is more likely what he means by this).
\nI asked him what he meant by that (and saying a whole bunch of other stuff like “heavy baggage” and “personally want to wait another month to know”), all he said was “that we can still wait for the month”. But he responded later by saying “sweetie”. So yeah, can safely assume the latter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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