{"id":8236,"date":"2021-07-17T04:10:25","date_gmt":"2021-07-17T08:10:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/?p=8236"},"modified":"2021-07-17T21:39:03","modified_gmt":"2021-07-18T01:39:03","slug":"the-drama-with-dj-is-over-and-now-i-have-a-bf","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/2021\/07\/17\/the-drama-with-dj-is-over-and-now-i-have-a-bf\/","title":{"rendered":"The drama with DJ is over, and now I have a BF"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s been 24 hours since the drama has ended, and thankfully nothing else is happening. There was only one instance of some random person joining our Destiny 2 clan and Kovo kind of assumed<\/span><\/em> it was DJ. However since she was asleep at the time, there’s no possible way of that.<\/p>\n

Honestly, for what I went though to defend DJ, having a BF is a perfect way to end this.
\nSo who is it? Yes, it’s Wolfdog. And this time, I was asked if I would be interested in a relationship.
\nThe reason is, I assumed he had a BF going by his VRC+ pfp. I wanted to be careful just incase. Instead he was single, and looking like me. He wants to be there for me, knowing what I’ve been through and really has strong feelings toward me. He has read my ingame bio and says he will fully accept who I am IRL.
\nThis is literally everything I’m looking for in a BF being checked off my list. It’s great.
\nAs I’ve already stated before, he’s pretty sweet and charming, and he also loves kissing me. It’s really cute. \ud83d\ude42 Have I actually found my soulmate? At once I felt unsure.. not anymore.
\nI know<\/em><\/strong> I found them. \ud83d\udc4d
\nBut remember when I said how they didn’t ask me who I was IRL? It seems I was right that he didn’t even mind who I was. However I wanted him to know. I wanted him to know my heavy baggage, if he’s willing to carry it. And surprisingly, he is. We had a very nice conversation about it, and wow it seems we have a lot more in common than we both thought.<\/p>\n

Though there are a few things that do slightly bother me with this;
\n1.<\/strong> He wants a IRL picture of my belly. Though it’s not fully him, it’s just.. this can go in so many different ways. One thing I’m glad my parents taught me, is being careful on the internet. You can never be too careful with who you talk to, even of someone like Wolfdog.
\nComparing myself to DJ, who willingly does give out this ‘personal info’.. this is why he was in deep shit and I wasn’t. I know better.
\n2.<\/strong> He wants to meet me IRL. Sadly right now isn’t a good time as my mother likely wouldn’t like a stranger coming to the house, or wouldn’t like me saying “I’m going to this state to go see a friend”. Yeah.. so, either I move out and get an apartment or I.. wait until she passes away. The second ‘option’ is very “lord forbid”. And honestly, I dunno which option is ‘good’. Leaving her or.. the other. Plus, I have to take care of the cats when she does pass away (and I have told Wolf this). So, not really possible as much as I wish I could. I just don’t have that freedom.<\/p>\n

But, at the end of the day, I’m happy. I’m no longer alone. I found ‘the one’ and I’m still shocked. So, take that Jero! I thought you were the one, and boy was I blind and desperate. And you cheated on m– no no. It’s time to let it go.
\nI found a new love. A sweet love. I love who I love more than just their voice or their avatar. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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