{"id":7815,"date":"2020-01-06T14:51:58","date_gmt":"2020-01-06T19:51:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/?p=7815"},"modified":"2020-01-07T14:48:11","modified_gmt":"2020-01-07T19:48:11","slug":"its-time-to-end-this-with-fluffy-once-and-for-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/2020\/01\/06\/its-time-to-end-this-with-fluffy-once-and-for-all\/","title":{"rendered":"It’s time to end this (with Fluffy), once and for all"},"content":{"rendered":"


\nGod damnit, Onion. You’re supposed to be a place of satire news.. not true<\/span> news. \ud83d\ude1b Yesterday was bad (ingame in Subnautica and in Discord), plus I feel this day is going to be more than just “slightly” of the worse… but it all depends on how Fluffy reacts to
\na .rtf text document I sent him (to avoid Discord’s aggressive 2,000 character limit).
\nIn the contents of this document, I explained how A: Blue and Cola are now a thing and the group has been disbanded. And B: How myself and Fluffy shouldn’t<\/em><\/strong> be a thing.
\n–
\nApparently I assumed wrong when I thought Fluffy had seamlessly moved on from me and was looking for love again, as he sent another pic of his.. genitals and wanted to do it with me (while I was trying to not freak the fuck out when I’m seeing THIS thing coming for me of being in the Inactive Lava Zone, harvesting Kyanite deposits on the ocean floor)…
\n
\nOh HIII, Sea Dragon!! You don’t like me here, do y–?<\/p>\n


\nOSHI– that definitely answers my question!! RUN!!<\/p>\n


\nHi, beautiful (that’s trying to vore me in my PRAWN Suit)! :O
\nSomehow I was able to dodge his attack with no damage to the suit.
\n==========================
\n…Any<\/em>way, back to what I was talking about (with Fluffy). I really doubt he’ll take my words to see that he needs to stop<\/strong> looking for love, but he might surprise me– who knows.
\nEDIT:<\/strong> Looks like I was right. And apparently (unfortunately).. he’s still on vacation in Mexico. I asked him yesterday if he was back, yet he didn’t say anything. Well, there’s really not much I can say, instead of myself having to put my foot down and get this over with.
\nHe was more pissed off about Blue though, then of myself leaving him. But after telling him what Blue had told me, he was forced to realize it (just not fully). Then at one time he wanted to pull me back into to his ‘web’ of troubled love. He was even literally begging me to come back. Rather pathetic, and he nearly pulled me in. Stopped myself and fired back with “how many times did I ask you to change” for him to back off.
\n–
\nHe’s talking about how he “can’t last anymore I wanna lock in with someone until the end..until I move on..” Fluffy, by normal means, you got a very, very, very very VERY very long life ahead of you! You’re going to outlive me<\/span>!! Also, ‘lock in’? You really think love works like that?
\nHere you go Fluffy, some advice: you want an ever-lasting relationship? LEARN from
\nthis (and your previous relationships)!! LEARN what you’re doing wrong and try to improve on it!! Yet you never fucking do<\/strong>! Both Aftershock and myself have tried so, so hard to hammer this into your head, yet you either refuse to understand or it never
\nclicks.
\nThat is why of what you want, will never ever<\/em><\/strong> happen. What you want, requires lots of effort on your part.
\nEDIT2:<\/strong> Now he’s being full-on toxic, keeps denying that we’re over with by calling
\nme “sweetie”.. completely ignoring what I’m trying to say. He’s borderline about to get himself blocked if he keeps it up. Yet at the same time, I feel he’s going to do something he’s going to really regret.
\nEDIT3:<\/strong> Managed to defuse the situation by explaining that I didn’t want to do this, that I was hoping he would understand.. and it seems he finally does. I also apologized for telling him (anyway) when he was on vacation, and how I wanted to wait. But he says “it\u2019s fine it would have been more depressing in home”. I doubt that, but mmm… it’s done.<\/p>\n

I’ve said this before, and I’m gonna say this again; Fluffy’s a good guy, he just has a lot he needs to change before he ever has a long-lasting relationship (that he wants). Yet so do I. That’s why I personally gave up on love (finally realizing it’s more trouble than its
\nworth), and I’ve been begging him to do the same.
\n…But he’s young, inexperienced, and just doesn’t understand (nomatter how much I try to hammer it into his head.. just like Aftershock has tried and failed). And I just can’t do it anymore (neither can he).
\nSo there’s a good chance I might block him anyway. I don’t want to, but it might be the only way for him to realize, he can’t keep doing what he’s doing.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

God damnit, Onion. You’re supposed to be a place of satire news.. not true news. \ud83d\ude1b Yesterday was bad (ingame in Subnautica and in Discord), plus I feel this day is going to be more than just “slightly” of the … Continue reading →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25,26,2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7815","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-drama","category-love-drama","category-personal"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7815","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7815"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7815\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7820,"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7815\/revisions\/7820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7815"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7815"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7815"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}