{"id":7556,"date":"2019-10-29T13:02:53","date_gmt":"2019-10-29T17:02:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/?p=7556"},"modified":"2019-10-29T19:53:41","modified_gmt":"2019-10-29T23:53:41","slug":"garruks-disturbing-past-why-i-love-colas-sense-of-humor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/2019\/10\/29\/garruks-disturbing-past-why-i-love-colas-sense-of-humor\/","title":{"rendered":"Garruk’s disturbing past \/ Why I love Cola’s sense of humor"},"content":{"rendered":"

Yesterday was quite interesting. Learned a lot about Cola, and Garruk. First off I will discussed what I learned about Garruk, as what I learned from a sleep-deprived Cola was funny af.
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\nGarruk’s disturbing past<\/strong> (An abusive father who took to drinking<\/span>)<\/em>
\nSo yesterday’s time with Garruk was different than the past three evenings. He was a lot more active, world hopping with a friend of mine. Caught him a few minutes before going to another world.
\nOne time we were alone in this April Fools version of the Balloon Farm world (where instead of balloons, it was fields of corn– a normal<\/em> farm. Heh). Now I can’t remember everything that he told me, but I think it was something about his life (that felt a lot like mine).
\nWhen he was done with one conversation, I was curious about his ex-father and decided to ask him. Told me the person was an explorer in heart, but with a wife and kids (and a
\njob), that was delayed. The father took to drinking, which made things go south quite fast for young Garruk and his family– saying the father started to not care for his family as much. This lead to the father cheating on his wife with another woman.
\nThe disturbing part of this story unfolded, when Garruk told me he was sexually abused by his father (it traumatized him).
\nHonestly I’m very surprised “So my mother called the police” didn’t follow after, because that’s very much against the law (as it falls on child endangerment). But all Garruk did was distance himself from his abusive father.
\nThen he said about a few months later, he was by a pond and said he had a vision. I can’t remember what he said was in that vision, but two ambulances passed by the lake. Said they “didn’t come back” and felt they might be heading to his house, and felt that he had to get there.
\nWhen he did, said he felt emptiness seeing his ex-father slumped over in the house.. not even the ability to cry came over him. He could feel nothing. One paramedic came over to him and asked “Hey, are you OK?” He slowly nodded his head infront of me as he did of the paramedic, saying they knew there was nothing they could do for him.
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\nBut he said that’s not the worst of his story. Happened a few weeks later after the passing of his father. The father’s resources were given out, which his mother found just how bad the father had gone.. a locker full of unopened bottles of alcohol, and condoms to where he could screw around with this other woman. It was bad, very bad. It brought the mother to tears.
\nAnd so, that is the story he tells. The story of a brave explorer who didn’t think
\nstraight, realized he was stuck, and drunk his life away. But his death didn’t come from liver failure (it came close though). The cause of death, was from a stroke (his 3rd).<\/p>\n

In addition, he said the abusive relationship with his father, he has no desire to want to do it with anyone IRL. And he said if he and his once-BF meet up and it’s official.. as in they move in, he says the guy has to be very careful how he approaches him.
\nAlso, he told me if everything works out, the two will meet up IRL on Christmas Eve. I feel eventually, he might not ‘need’ me anymore as he’ll feel confident in wanting to be with his former BF. And I’ll be very happy for him when that happens.
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\nWhy I love Cola’s sense of humor<\/strong> (When a pizza topping nearly made him dump me<\/span>)<\/em>
\nA sad story Garruk said, so let’s brighten up the mood here by shifting back to the
\ngroup (and good ole Cola (who claims he’s “85% Coca-Cola”). Not water, Coca-Cola (in his mind))!
\nHe too was telling me stories.. which I forgot most of them sadly. Yet I waste no time twisting his words around to make me look sweet. Such as saying “You know what I care about? The one I’m with right now. \ud83d\udc97”
\nOne time, he asked me a random question after coming back from getting something to
\neat: “What’s your favorite pizza toppings?” Ahh Cola, silly. You know this is a highly controversial topic that has literally started wars. I went on and on about how this is a bad idea and he said “alright, let’s make this easy: what is the first thing you think, when you hear pineapples on pizza?” I said, they sound disgusting. He looked at me and said “you think pineapples on pizza, is disgusting<\/span><\/em>!?” I start laughing, pretty sure he’s just messing with me. He says “choose. your. words. wisely.”, and talking about how he can’t really love me when I don’t like what he likes. I just laughed it off, and Cola knew I knew he was joking.
\nThis, is why I love him. \ud83d\ude18 He’s this and everything I look for in a relationship.
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\nLater on (when Garruk went to bed), was with Cola and Dander Icebreaker. One time Cola randomly asked him the same question, and he said “Hawaiian”. Cola gasped, stared at me and said “You’ve been out-voted!” Hahahaha. Ahh, Cola.<\/p>\n

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\nSo that’s about what happened. Everyday’s a new adventure.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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