{"id":7311,"date":"2019-08-14T02:19:29","date_gmt":"2019-08-14T06:19:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/?p=7311"},"modified":"2019-08-15T16:43:58","modified_gmt":"2019-08-15T20:43:58","slug":"a-bad-day-gets-even-worse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/2019\/08\/14\/a-bad-day-gets-even-worse\/","title":{"rendered":"A bad day gets even worse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Plaqued with an old issue I was hoping I would never see again (that’s still not fully
\nfixed), and drama that I thought<\/em> was done has now resurfaced.
\nFirst off, the issue with my headset. Guess what? Zagro’s fix, didn’t work (as expected, as it didn’t work before). …Because the fix was incomplete. I was supposed to also set the other two AMD USB 3.X host controllers to the generic driver. Basically, these three all need to be changed to the generic driver, for the fix to work (according to him);
\n
\nZagro has also doubled down that it is NOT the sign of a faulty motherboard. He also
\nsays “lets be real: you know<\/span> how many devices you have plugged into the back of your computer. You might be overloading your motherboard’s power rail.”
\nNow I did notice when it happened again (and I was listening to Chillhop Radio), the page acted like it was having trouble loading. So it seems that when it happens, it freezes up ALL of my USB devices (not just my headset).
\nInteresting enough, I also saw this;
\n
\nCurious how this fix dropped the same day I started getting the issue again, but it’s merely a quiescence, and I do not<\/strong> believe (at all) that this is related to my issue. It just doesn’t seem plausible with the whole “USB_SPEED_TOO_SLOW” thing. Even the VR Ready port (the one that’s designed for it), claimed it’s “too slow”.
\nAnyway, knowing I’ve done this same thing before (and it stopped disconnecting my headset), I believe this should fix my issue. Now though I haven’t tested it in
\nVRChat (yet), I’ve been doing a series of restarts and WindowsMR has booted up normally everytime– this is very<\/span><\/em> promising. \ud83d\ude42 Hopefully when I get in, that I won’t have a disconnect issue. And if so, then setting those three to the Generic driver is definitely the way to go.
\nIt made me think.. what if my old motherboard didn’t use this ‘ASMedia’ thing controlling the USB ports (ergo, why it didn’t happen back then)? Asked Zagro and he said it uses a ‘Renesas’ USB 3.0 chip instead, and it “uses its own drivers”. Ok, but that still doesn’t give me solid proof it’s not my GPU causing the issue.
\nBut Zagro assures me this is<\/span> the issue, and has been known since 2017 (the year WMR was released). And from what I saw with how responsive WindowsMR is when booting it up, it’s unwise to doubt him.<\/p>\n

So while I was dealing with this, Blueberry DMs me unexpectingly saying “i think we have a small problem” and sends me a DM of him and Insanely. And what I saw almost made my jaw drop to the floor. Insanely.. just dumped Blueberry. What?!<\/strong> I was as confused as he was and confronted Insanely, which he claimed Ashi made him do it.
\n..This completely goes against what Aftershock told me (and him). He tries to explain it better, saying Aftershock told him to leave Blueberry at first, and then Ashi told him, over not wanting “to be spyed on from blueberry”. Ok, that is understandable, but you don’t need to leave Blueberry over it. He said I’m right and went to talk to
\nhim.
\nAn hour into Wednesday morning, it starts up again with Blueberry asking “benie why does this keep happening”. I questioned, and he posted another DM with Insanely
\nsaying “fuck you” to Blueberry.
\nOkay, did Ashi tell my son this too? Asked Insanely, and he’s blaming Aftershock for it. Alright, I’ll ask him, and Aftershock tells me a completely different story claiming (with proof) that Insanely doesn’t love Blueberry anymore. I know for a fact that Aftershock does his best to avoid drama, so now I feel I’m being lied to. I ask him to please end this, and he says “yes”.
\nAnd an hour later, it’s confirmed; he lied to Aftershock, Blueberry, and myself. Insanely now claims he too<\/em> was jealous of Ashi being with Aftershock, but I’m not going to forgive him. Not until he seriously makes this up to Blueberry, who had no<\/strong> idea what the fuck he did wrong to deserve this!
\nI’m on Blueberry’s side for this one, for Insanely should had used better judgement. Plus trying to cover up his lie by continuing to put Ashi under the bus (infront of
\nAftershock), instead of just admitting he lied? …This is a new low.<\/p>\n

EDIT: He managed to apologize (and sent me what he said). Though IMO, I didn’t feel it was sincere and told Blueberry my opinion. And he.. doesn’t care anymore. I can understand why, but told him that he deserves to be respected as a person. But
\nhe… doesn’t feel anything anymore; a hollow shell of his former self. Tried everything I can think of, to snap him out of this. But nothing works.
\nTalking with Insanely who at first didn’t understand what he did wrong with his
\napology, now sees himself as a “monster”. Told him to treat Blueberry with respect (which he failed to do), and he says I’m right. But when I kept harping at him that he messed
\nup, he lied to me yet again<\/em> …about Ashi being the fault. This is getting quite<\/strong>
\nridiculous.
\nI don’t even know if he truly loves Blueberry anymore (and I’m pretty sure Blueberry feels the same way). Both of us, just don’t know what to believe, and I feel Aftershock is the only one that could help untwist this puzzle. But I have a feeling he too is getting tired of dealing with this.<\/p>\n

EDIT2: Insanely seems<\/em> to have woken up from what he was before, saying I’m absolutely right about still blaming Ashi for what he<\/em> (Insanely) did. He has tried to be as sincere as he can to Blueberry, and he saw what I tried to tell him; Blueberry just doesn’t care anymore.
\nI dunno what to do, except telling him that Blueberry “needs some time”. But, I’m done dealing with these children– told him to “take the wheel” on this.
\nPretty much like Aftershock right now; neither of us wanted to get involved in this. But I have since forgiven Insanely, since he now sees what I was trying to harp on him about.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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