{"id":6834,"date":"2019-04-28T02:11:31","date_gmt":"2019-04-28T06:11:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/?p=6834"},"modified":"2019-04-28T04:14:50","modified_gmt":"2019-04-28T08:14:50","slug":"the-afterdrama-friendships-in-jeopardy-and-why-we-all-need-a-chill-pill","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/benies-blogs.com\/general\/2019\/04\/28\/the-afterdrama-friendships-in-jeopardy-and-why-we-all-need-a-chill-pill\/","title":{"rendered":"The Afterdrama — Friendships in jeopardy, and why we all need a chill pill"},"content":{"rendered":"

The drama that happened a few days ago — even though what started it is now ended — is still ongoing in another form. Patience is being tested, and long-held friendships could be lost. Sadly, this drama is local to Kovo’s group (affecting Kovo and Vale). I.. just want this foolishness to end (before I feel Kovo loses me as a friend).
\nSo what’s going on now? From what I understand, it was the time where Sarge and Lich posted their evidence against Jusper. Behind the scenes (and unknown to me), Kovo told Lich not<\/span> to post it in our Discord. Yet they do it anyway. Look, they were wrong for doing so. …But it’s time to chill the fuck out and walk away.
\nThough Kovo feels I’m not seeing the full picture (especially now he has beef with
\nJusper, claiming he’s “just like that group”, caring for the model more than
\nfriendships).. how!?<\/strong> Jusper has been helping<\/span><\/strong> me to get back into VR! But again, I don’t seem to get it (according to him). I told him if he doesn’t let this drama go, he’ll be no better than Lich. And he said “I can say the same”.
\n*blink* ..Okay, pal, you seriously need to chill. Do you see me<\/em> pissed off? Of course, I haven’t spoken to Lich since he wanted to end the drama (I have no need), but I’m not making a big fucking deal about it, dude.
\n–
\nI’m just going to stay out of it before this escalates any further, think it would be best for my mental health. Not to mention I’m dealing with my own drama, of trying to get everyone I spoke to (when I was convinced Wuffer was a bad person, as they convinced me), to change their opinions about him.
\nJusper feels Wuffer’s just going to lie again, but said “you do you”. And Lone, I don’t think is going to give me an answer. Honestly, I don’t care. I’m happy. But it’s bothering
\nWuffer, and making him wish he never came back to VRChat. Says he can’t join groups he used to, because of people being against him.
\nI only told a very small minority, though, and they honestly don’t really care that I’m with him again. Pretty sure all they’ll say is “don’t come crying to us when he dumps you”.
\nAll I can say to that is, I pray that doesn’t (and never) happens. We’re taking things quite slow now (I even tested him, and he passed by reminding me), so I think<\/em> I’ll be OK.<\/p>\n

But, I don’t know if I can hang out with Kovo (or even with his group) anymore. I’m scared he’s going to get hostile or something, for defending Jusper. Personally (at this
\ntime), defending =\/= being a close friend. But I may not be allowed to be his friend if Kovo’s this pissed.
\nI dunno what to think, except back off and let this play out. I have tried my best to convince him to calm down, and it only gets worse. Apparently I’m not seeing the full picture that’s somewhere in his head, and he won’t tell me what it is. Can’t ask Lone, as he has his own drama to deal with.
\nJust glad I have Wuffer again (for the time being). Who knows, I might lose him during Moon’s birthday party tomorrow (especially when he finds out most of the drama was because of what he did to me.. when I was assuming he cheated on Ballistic(and in turn cheated on me), as I didn’t know the full story.
\n–
\nBut he’s also bothered by the money thing (and claiming he got robbed). He told me I should had told him when Ballistic told me..
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\nSo um, Wuffer, babe.. first off, at the time, I was still assuming you cheated on Ballistic with me (extremely glad to hear you weren’t<\/em>, by the way).
\nSecond, Ballistic put up quite a convincing argument that felt well-linked to what Sneaky originally told me about you. When he heard the second thing, he said “Sneaky is a cunt that can die in a fire” and “just stop speaking to Sneaky.” I actually haven’t for a long while. Only times I have spoken to him (since then), is if he just so happens to say “hey” if he’s in the room with friends I wanna hang out and chill with.
\nThird, he mentioned “I don’t get why people can’t just talk it out”. What he did to me back then (with that friend), and he expected me to talk..?! I tried<\/strong> talking (when it was happening), and he wouldn’t listen. That wasn’t my fault, it was his. Furthermore, he had PLENTY of chances to ask to speak to me in private and talk about it, to defend himself. He didn’t.. of course, myself running from him when he’s in the same world (and eventually unfriending\/re-blocking), didn’t help him much.<\/p>\n

.
\nLook, we both fucked up (except he fucked up worse). All I can say, is I pray Lone doesn’t see us together (as I totally didn’t tell him he(Wuffer) ‘got fucked’ and was ‘happy’, feeling like I ‘got my revenge’). Totally didn’t happen, and totally didn’t write it in a blog post<\/a>!!
\nLike, totally man!<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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